Business Relationships - Promises are for Keeping
And ultimately, those little things add up to a lot for your
people. And that affects you and in the end, your business
success.
Integrity is very important to me, and I try hard to 'do unto
others as I would wish them do unto me'. It hasn't always worked
that way for me though.
There have been times in my previous career - times that I can
remember vividly even now - when promises were not kept, things
were borrowed, never to be returned and where I was not on the
best end of wheeling and dealing that are part of corporate
politics.
For me, creating honourable relationships with my people has
always been important. It is a two-way street. Once when my wife
was very ill, my management team told me not to come in, despite
it being a very busy time.
I told them, thank-you, and I would come and go, in the comfort
that they thought enough of me; of us; to tell me to do that.
I didn't need to ask, but what they said to me at that time came
from an environment of fairness, honesty and trust had grown
over time. They knew that if it had been them, I would have
offered the same.
It was as if, as Steven Covey says, in 'The Seven Habits of
Highly Effective People', I had enough credit in my 'emotional
bank account' to tide me over.
I'd never realised that I had that credit, but looking back, my
standards and values were daily deposits, gained partly from
keeping promises when I made them. You get back what you give
out.
There's no better time to start than right now.
About the author:
2006 Martin Haworth is a Management Coach. He has more at his
website, Coaching
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