Why A Selfish Jerk Is 100% Guaranteed To Fail On eBay
This email is from a man who is guaranteed to fail and the
reasons aren't hard to figure out. Here are his exact words ...
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Hello Sydney,
I can't afford any investment in more marketing programs right
now. I could use some promotion for the ones I have a lot of
time a fair amount of money invested already.
I also haven't been able to produce with eBay!
Please visit my links: (3 URLs here)
Also, if you'd really ('really' is in bold type and italics)
like to help, please encourage others to visit my sites as well.
I haven't been able to make a dime on the Internet yet. I also
am having great difficulty finding a job as well;this is no
money from anywhere!
I have child support to pay and if I go much longer without
paying, I'm looking at 1-3 years in prison for non-payment. Yes,
debtors prison is still alive and very well here in Northern
Michigan.
So, I'm asking you to please help me in this way and I won't
have any problem with rewarding you handsomely!
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(1.) There are so many issues here that it's hard to know where
to begin, but the best place is with his three websites:
His first site is about:
* Bookkeeping * Personal Income Tax * Classic Rock & Roll * With
"links to eBay, Amazon & more!"
Who, exactly, is his audience? There is no clear focus and no
defined audience. Those searching for information on rock and
roll are unlikely to be interested in bookkeeping.
What's even more amazing is that there is absolutely nothing at
all about bookkeeping or income tax, except for a comment on the
home page. There are a couple of links to rock and roll sites
and one to the front page of Amazon. How is he hoping monetize
this site?
His second site is about how to make "Explosive" income with his
"revolutionary home based business". This from a guy who admits
he hasn't made a single cent on the Net, yet he isn't bothered
about selling others a program that obviously isn't working for
him.
The third site is about auctions and the home page says, "CLICK
TO ENTER" ... but when I do absolutely nothing happens. A
completely blank page opens and remains constant. There isn't
even a 404 message.
(2.) He wants my help, yet has total disrespect for me and my
business. What he is truly saying is, "I have spent all my money
in other places, and now that I have none left, I want you to
help me". Where will I get the time to help him? It will have to
come either from my own business or I will have to take time
away from my students who pay for my help. He says he "won't
have any problem with rewarding you handsomely!" Very generous
of him, I'm sure.
(3.) He wants me to send traffic to his sites. But he says
nothing about how my customers and students would benefit from
what he has to offer. Does he really believe I would betray
their trust by sending them to three absolutely worthless sites
that offer them no benefit whatsoever?
And even if I shared his moral character, why would I do such a
thing? If I don't mind betraying others, it would have to be for
personal gain and I will not make money by sending him traffic.
(4.) Worst of all, he displays no concern whatsoever for his
children or their mother who is trying to care for their
children without any financial support from their father. He
says, "Yes, debtors prison is still alive and very well here in
Northern Michigan.". He's not in trouble for debt - he's in
trouble for not making his child support payments. As well he
should be.
The entire focus of this email is me, me, me. The author cares
nothing about anyone else and obviously doesn't understand the
top three rules of marketing, which are:
#1: Focus on your customer #2: Focus on your customer #3: Focus
on your customer
I used to take the time to help people see that a major reason
for their lack of success is that they aren't putting the needs
of their customers first. Generally, though, their response is
to argue with me that once they're making money, then they can
afford to care about others. It doesn't work that way.
Does this mean that all caring and decent people are certain to
succeed while selfish ones are certain to fail? No, but offering
value to the customer is definitely the starting place of
success.
Sometimes I do help people who are down on their luck and can't
pay me anything, but this guy won't be one of them. His callous
disregard for others is repulsive. My delete key is the perfect
response to this selfish man.
About the author:
Sydney Johnston has been an eBay seller since 1996 and is the
originator and teacher of the famous 'Auction Genius Course'.
She offers an 11 Day Course that teaches how to sell on ebay:
http://auction-genius-course.com/11days.shtml